It doesn’t matter what they say – men and women are very similar!

I am sure you have heard that Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. Occassionally it is easy to assume that men and women are so entirely unlike. Women frequently grumble that their husbands never pay attention to what they say. Men often repeat that women are so complicated that they would never be able to understand their behaviour.



Occassionally, I also believe in those stereotypes. Nevertheless, deep inside I sincerely believe they are deceptive. And recently I had small, seemingly meaningless occurrence that convinced me even more that men and women are so similar. And I want to present it to you.

Last month I have spent the whole Saturday decorating my favourite shoes and clothes, including my favourite skirt and jacket. Most of my clothes are pretty delicate. Therefore, I do wash them by hand with the purpose that they won’t get destroyed.

Moreover, I have spent many hours changing small details of my clothes with my sewing machine. Later, I checked if all of my shoes are completely clean and shiny. I polished them more than 2 hours! Could you imagine that? Right after my husband returned and saw that I was still taking care of my clothes, he couldn’t believe this! He laughed at me that I spend entire day on so boring things. This wouldn’t be so weird when you consider that he doesn’t even iron his shirt.

Last Wednesday my husband went for a business trip to NYC. When he returned I asked him how he had spent a free Sunday. My husband simply answered with the words “vinyl wraps nyc”. I didn’t know what he was talking about. It turned out that thi was simply changing the colour and general look of his car. As a woman, I was not able to think of the worst idea for the weekend. But when I was looking at my husband’s joy , it made me realized how much in common we have.

It doesn’t matter if you are man or woman -we all enjoy tiny changes, surrounding ourselves with good looking things. And both men and women care about things they enjoy – women make sure that their favourite blouse is every time washed at the proper temperature so that its colour is not faded. Men frequently put their feelings on their cars. Despite the fact that it means adopting trends right from nyc.